Thursday 27 May 2021

As a Professional Dominatrix

 Being a professional dominatrix isn't just about smacking asses, tying boys up and taking their tribute. As a professional and a kink mentor, I've come to realise that techniques are the easiest to teach and learn. Anyone with sufficient determination can learn the fundamentals - to master a single tail whip, to tie a single column knot, and the like. Outside of acquiring functional skills and procuring the tools of the trade, the things that are hardest to learn are the underlying values and principles such as one's concept of consent, risk-aware kink and respect. These values represent our commitment to the practice and to the larger community.
Being a professional also brings with it a heightened sense of responsibility and care towards these subs. Extraordinary empathy is needed to understand their motivations, anxieties and kinks, to create healing spaces and to curate shared energies and experiences for each and every one who passes through our door. Regurgitating their fantasies is one thing - understanding how their motivations, anxieties and experiences shape who they are, is yet another.
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